The advice from most of you yesterday was to let the situation boil over. After much thought on this, I couldn't live with this transgression and the possibility Zeter would forever think I had tried to lure him in or seduce him on that fateful day.
The following message was recently sent via facebook (from me):
"friday was not a date but just a friendly catch-up. sorry if i have been misleading in any way... so this has been sufficiently awkward. gl with uni :)"
Did I handle it well? I don't really care. This fiasco ends here. It must.
J
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- Junaberry
- I'm a student from Australia who used to have a lot of time on her hands but doesn't have that much anymore. Now she has other stuff on her hands.
8 comments:
I wouldn't have used a smiley face or acknowledged about you being misleading, because you weren't, he just got it confused. Coz boys are silly. But I would have sent a message, too.
Dw, I'll get some European boys for you ;)
<3
--C
yeah. it was either this pseudo-friendly message or one full of aggression (i formed one in my head involving phrases such as "you are a fucking idiot" and "please kindly fuck off, i never want to talk to you again") but i was told aggression was bad and could be damaging to the sanctity of peace. but who knows.
i'm glad i sent a message. mostly because i am impatient and can't live with the whole "let it boil over" thing.
thx. looking forward to meeting jochem still. thx for leading us to the free sausages yesterday too.
<3
Haha, that's ok.
I think that its good for closure? Like, otherwise he just has this false impression left on him, like you said. Kudos to you for doing it!
--C
p.s. double kudos for taking the high road. I would have gone with the message full of aggression and fuck yous :P
good work.
i too would have gone with the fuck yas, thus eliminating any breezy-ness the message may have initially conveyed.
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well apparently he was nice about it...
nice about what?
- C
as in he didn't make fun of me or say it meanly... apparently.
still a douche move to tell anyone this though. in my opinion. WHAT A STRAYA C__T.
J
Oh Ok, I see what you mean.
agreed, still a bit of a dick move.
- C
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