I'm trying to identify why I am repelled by nice boys. I've come up with several theories:
1. They remind me of girls. I don't know if this one even makes sense as girls can be really bitchy... Yeah, this one just doesn't really make sense.
2. I can't take them seriously in a romantic way. Meet friend zone. They are too nice and friendly. I guess my thinking goes something like this... Friendly boy --> feels like relative/brother --> flipper children.
3. I'm scared I will offend them.
4. I lack respect for them? This is not true as I really respect nice people (something I can never be... there was an incident today involving Big Michelle and second day hair. The second I said it, I thought, "Oh God, why did I say that?"). I guess I just associate a degree of arrogance and pride and self-confidence with strength and attractiveness. It doesn't really make sense. I probably buy into too many stereotypes and archetypes.
That's the list so far.
J
About Me
- Junaberry
- I'm a student from Australia who used to have a lot of time on her hands but doesn't have that much anymore. Now she has other stuff on her hands.
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